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When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

Here in this town where I live I almost always make a very good impression on people or the cashiers. So when I have to go there again, I'm kind of worried or almost afraid, lol, because I have to live up to the good impression I made the last time I went there, and make an even better impression and so forth, so I sometimes even avoid going back. Lol. Do you have problems with expectation pressure?

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Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

No, I don't find this.

Though I generally just get everything delivered to my door now.

Hep: "I'll post a topless picture if you do the same ;)"

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Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

This is my favourite football song. The Linfield fans singing at the tarriers

My OLD man said be a LINFIELD fan!



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Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

When I go to the grocery store it's different, because I always have to go to the grocery store, so I get used to the people/cashiers there. It's when I go to other stores or the shopping mall here that this problem starts.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Race,_Evolution,_and_Behavior

Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

You need to hit the gym and become more confident within yourself.

Or you should tan heaps of vodka and snort coke every time you go to the shop. Either option will give you strong confidence, one healthier than the other

Hep: "I'll post a topless picture if you do the same ;)"

Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

But I am very confident, that's part of the reason why I make a good impression, along with my rl looks! (I know you people don't believe me). .. So I don't think this is a common issue among people, because most people have average self-confidence and looks.!

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Race,_Evolution,_and_Behavior

Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

I think you’re cool

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Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

I know, but you know I am a narcisisstic b-tch online, and very confident irl too. I just get frustrated with this photogenic problem I have online. It's weird living in two opposite worlds like this.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Race,_Evolution,_and_Behavior

Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

Same here

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Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

Yeah, I have "expectation pressure" in some situations. But generally not with store clerks unless I think they're cute and anticipate getting them in bed.

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Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

With me, it's the only people I socialize with irl, so they're just like any other people to me. But yea I guess the normal thing is to go from making a good first impression to having a continued good tone (or whatever) with the person, to go for longer conversations with the person, to have a relationship with them, like with a dentist or doctor. But with me, I just normally back out after the first meeting, and look for another cashier the next time I visit that store, because I just make A TOO GOOD OF AN IMPRESSION to meet the expectations the next time, lol. (I know you online people don't believe me). ..

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Race,_Evolution,_and_Behavior

Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

I believe you. I think most of us are very different IRL than we are online. And I doubt you're calling the cashiers "wheits"! Lol.

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Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

That was not my point, gb.! I give wheit piggs sh-t every time I'm institutionalized against my will, like I do here. Trust me. It's in my medical records, black on wheit.! I try to act like a normal person when I go out on my own though. It's the online thing that bothers me, what people say behind your back. But in reality I'm an extremely sympathetic well-liked character, who people love and go crazy about. I would be very popular if I chose to be more social irl.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Race,_Evolution,_and_Behavior

Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

This place is very similar to an institution. 😝

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Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

No, institution means direct and up-front confrontation. Here, people hide behind nicks and multiple personalities.

I'd say psychiatric institutions are worse than prison btw.! 😆

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Race,_Evolution,_and_Behavior

Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

Prison isn't bad once you get used to it. And I'm just saying most the people online are somewhat dysfunctional.

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Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

I could deal with prison. I just can't deal with the forced medication in psychiatric institutions, which makes me lose my mind and body. You're saying you're dysfunctional.? I've explained why I'm online doing what I do.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Race,_Evolution,_and_Behavior

Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

I didn't say I'm dysfunctional. I function properly. But I'm weird.

But many of these guys here are virgins up into their late 20's who never leave their rooms. At least I work and have sex.

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Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

virgins up into their late 20's who never leave their rooms.

^^^, https://filmboards.com/user/3405

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Race,_Evolution,_and_Behavior

Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

Ebony used to claim she was asexual. And I say now, like I've said a thousand times, asexuality is a fraud. So she went through a period where she didn't want to have sex. She's still a sexual being like all humans. Now she's horny as **** all the time. Ebony is heterosexual. Asexuality doesn't really exist. It's a fake concept.

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She goes back and forth with everything. She does not have a russian bf. I'm sure she talks to some euro guys at work, but I don't believe they're her bf now, because- she went from posting about having a half conversation with someone to fully dating someone in one flash. Like I said, you're a stupid chinaman if you buy all of her stories.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Race,_Evolution,_and_Behavior

Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

You act like these stupid straight guys have so many options. He's a strange autistic kid with a thick Russian accent. She showed me a video he made.

He is very cute. He's also smart but probably has problems asking girls on a date. A guy like that would jump at the chance to get a hot nerdy chick like Ebony. I believe her, especially since she told me the story from the beginning.

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Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

OK, I believe she's an asexual, yapping online freak. I think you should accept/like her for being Chinese. I get the feeling your obsession with her has more to do with the fact that she introduced herself as a Eurasian on the Soapbox, than it has to do with her being, Chinese..

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Race,_Evolution,_and_Behavior

Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

Nah, she's not asexual. She makes me blush with some of the things she says.

I never heard her say she's Eurasian. She was born in the People's Republic. She's 100%.

I told you before, I like the Chinese workers. I hate the Chinese elite.

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Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

Platonic_Caveman said... Nah, she's not asexual. She makes me blush with some of the things she says.

I never heard her say she's Eurasian. She was born in the People's Republic. She's 100%.

I told you before, I like the Chinese workers. I hate the Chinese elite.
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I meant I think she's a virgin who's never had sex, her stories are too stupid to believe often.

The first time she posted on the Soapbox she claimed she was Eurasian, and you were the only one who responded positively to it, the other posters were mocking her. She has claimed it countless of times afterwards, it's in her own posting history on here. She seems obsessed with this, you too.

I told you, the chinese bosses are elitist with their employees. This is a normal work situation for every other people. Not that the chinese are like any other people. 👽

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Race,_Evolution,_and_Behavior

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azn_2 said... I meant I think she's a virgin who's never had sex, her stories are too stupid to believe often.

The first time she posted on the Soapbox she claimed she was Eurasian, and you were the only one who responded positively to it, the other posters were mocking her. She has claimed it countless of times afterwards, it's in her own posting history on here. She seems obsessed with this, you too.

I told you, the chinese bosses are elitist with their employees. This is a normal work situation for every other people. Not that the chinese are like any other people. 👽
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Frankly, it's positive for a woman to be a virgin. It's lame for a man.

I don't remember her saying she's Eurasian. It's possible. But like I said, she was born in mainland China.

As for the Chinese, there are very ingrained class differences. There is a reason the Communists were successful there. The aristocracy was brutal. The peasants and workers were treated like slaves.

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Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

Platonic_Caveman said... Frankly, it's positive for a woman to be a virgin. It's lame for a man.

I don't remember her saying she's Eurasian. It's possible. But like I said, she was born in mainland China.

As for the Chinese, there are very ingrained class differences. There is a reason the Communists were successful there. The aristocracy was brutal. The peasants and workers were treated like slaves.
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Hello, your communication skills are off. You've just praised ebony for 20 min., now you're dissing her people again. Grow up.

The kads prove that Asian people are the same (not slaves).

/sigg.

/done talking about edongy.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Race,_Evolution,_and_Behavior

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azn_2 said... Hello, your communication skills are off. You've just praised ebony for 20 min., now you're dissing her people again. Grow up.

The kads prove that Asian people are the same (not slaves).

/sigg.

/done talking about edongy.
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You brought up Ebony. I finished it.

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Platonic_Caveman said... You brought up Ebony. I finished it.
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I said I'm done talking about her in my thread.

https://imdb2.freeforums.net/board/202/general-discussion

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Race,_Evolution,_and_Behavior

Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

In what situations do you have expectation pressure.?

But generally not with store clerks unless I think they're cute and anticipate getting them in bed.

Btw, this is why you get along so well with Edongy, birds/attention-whores of a feather. 😆

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Race,_Evolution,_and_Behavior

Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

I'm just saying the only time I would feel pressure and expectation jitters with a store clerk is if I thought they were cute.

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Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

I'm not 'jittering'. I just don't like how easily obsessed people on the street can get with me. This is not in my head. Landlords always think they are my parents, and neighbors stalk me.

And I'm from working class, so I don't look down on 'store clerks'.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Race,_Evolution,_and_Behavior

"people or the cashiers"??

"people or the cashiers"?? Cashiers aren't people?



PS You're over thinking this one, Azn.

😺 Schrodinger's Cat walks into a bar, and doesn't. 🤨 Let's go, Brandon! 🤨 Try that in a small town.

"people or the cashiers"??

The cashiers in Norway are automatons.

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"people or the cashiers"??

Not everyone that works in a store is a cashier. This old ****er is harassing the **** out of her and Miley.

"people or the cashiers"??

Yeah, she meant "people" being the customers as opposed to cashiers. Yes, MMC2 is being an ass. But the girls clobber him as well.

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"people or the cashiers"??

I meant the people= the cashiers. They're the ones I communicate with when I go out/socialize.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Race,_Evolution,_and_Behavior

"people or the cashiers"??

Makes sense.

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"people or the cashiers"??

So Azn is worried about making a good impression on automatons?? We're talking major league weird here.



😺 Schrodinger's Cat walks into a bar, and doesn't. 🤨 Let's go, Brandon! 🤨 Try that in a small town.

"people or the cashiers"??

I'm not overthinking anything, it's my real life. A very different one (as opposed to the one I 'live' online), where I am/could be a very popular person. I don't fake my online racist persona though. ..

Btw, you're off block, if you can chill-out and not spam/go crazy with gifs etc. in my threads.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Race,_Evolution,_and_Behavior

I love conversations with you….

I love conversations with you, crazy lady! Please don't ever change. And you say you love gifs? Well okay then, here ya go:


































BTW, you did say you love Cary Grant, right?





😺 Schrodinger's Cat walks into a bar, and doesn't. 🤨 Let's go, Brandon! 🤨 Try that in a small town.

I love conversations with you….

Like I said, when I go out in my town, I'm not crazy. I'm a very likable person irl. It's when I'm locked up and or medicated against my will I go crazy. I've been off meds for months, and I just have more fun when I'm off it. Idgas if people don't like my span, it's filth-speech, and this the wild west.

I like the one where he's falling off his chair. Yea, gifs' your thing, but you need to chill. You've been acting up lately.


https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Race,_Evolution,_and_Behavior

I love conversations with you….

That's my favorite also.

"Acting up"?? Moi??



😺 Schrodinger's Cat walks into a bar, and doesn't. 🤨 Let's go, Brandon! 🤨 Try that in a small town.

Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

I guess people have low expectations of me so this never becomes an issue. That said, why don’t you just act tired and tone it down a little? I’m sure they won’t mind.

Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

Tone it down.? Other than being the customer, I'm not the one who initiates the 'social interaction' with them, lol. I act normal, and like myself, can't do it or be otherwise.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Race,_Evolution,_and_Behavior

Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

I have to live up to the good impression I made the last time I went there, and make an even better impression and so forth.

Okay, instead of trying to make an even better impression just do what you did last time.

Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

Yea, I just can't deal with it anyway, lol. I think it might have something to do with the views I often share on here, deep down. That although people like (I'd go as far as to say love) me back irl, I just need my distance from certain people.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Race,_Evolution,_and_Behavior

Re: When I go to the stores, (a weird problem I have),

I have to live up to the good impression I made the last time
Do you smile when you are talking with a cashier? That would make a positive impression and show the beauty that is within you. I don't remember seeing a smiling pic you posted. Can you post one here?
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