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What are your main reasons for wanting close human connections?

Particularly romantic relationships. What do they give you? Why is it worth anyone's time?

I'm starting to think the only reason I've ever wanted it was just for the sex and to have someone to wake up next to in the morning. Because the rest of it is honestly too tedious. The honeymoon period when it's all infatuation and you're exploring the world together is fine, but that ends for everyone. And then it's just kind of shitty until you either get used to it and accept how things have become, or you end the relationship because it just isn't working.

I honestly don't see the point. I totally understand why some poor bastard would spend money on prostitutes, or go to one of those weird countries like Japan where you can pay to cuddle a girl for a while. Because if you're otherwise a self-sufficient man and you don't need someone else around all the time to feel like you've actually done ok in life, then the only reason you'd want to get that close to a woman is just for sex and that brief moment where you have those feel-good brain chemicals get released by lying next to someone attractive.

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Hi Project Error

Melting down over top boy

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Is that a user here? Because I just Googled "Hi Project Error".

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Are you asking for our opinions or are you just getting things off your chest?

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Both. Opinions please.

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I mean, I can't explain what it is to be a normal human being to you. You just wouldn't relate.

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There's truth to this, but I sense a hint of ego here.

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I don't really pay that much attention to psychology terms especially the ones from Sigmund Freud theories.
What is ego?

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Never mind, Donna.

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Yeah..we just don't relate to each other right now. Sorry.

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understanding and intimacy

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😍💋💖😈

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🌺😘💋💗

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What if I already understand myself and have intimate moments (aka sex) with myself and others casually.

No need to get close to anyone then?

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what if u are lying to urself?

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I've thought about this, for a long while.
I concluded that the negatives of intimate relationships outweigh the good.
The negatives of keeping to myself do no outweigh the positives.
I understand myself enough to know this.

I was just curious if someone else's rationalization for pursuing or maintaining intimate relationships would provide perspective that I may have been missing. I guess I just don't hold the same values as most people, or I can find what those people seek in others (usually, but not always) within myself.

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whatever makes u happy. 🌺

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All your comments come from the most corny greeting cards

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It doesn't bother you having to pay someone to cuddle with? They don't even love you.

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I have no plans of doing that, but I somewhat understand the mentality.

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It sort of sounded like you are addicted to falling in love and courtship part but not the long term part of the relationship. You probably had some bad experiences.

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This is a fairly accurate description of me.

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Well what are you going to do about it?

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Isolate myself and only come out of hiding when I need to.

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You just haven't found someone you really want to stay with after phase one of the relationship. You will though. How old are you?

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I'd rather not say. But I'm closer to 30 than 40 or 20.


You will though.

No.

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Well don't worry about this problem of yours until you turn age 40. After you turn 40 years old, and you're still feeling and thinking that way about romance and relationships, you're FUCKED. Okay? You can't be fixed.

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I'd argue he's fucked now.

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You don't even know that for sure. He hasn't even discussed what happened in his past history with his romantic partners.

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Pleb

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There's no point in anything so just kill yourself if that's how you feel. One less sociopath on the planet.

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I'm not a danger to anyone, but your insistence on telling people to kill themselves does make you appear worse than anyone of my type.

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Yet..

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Yet, you still seem to take pleasure in being 10 pounds of shit in a 5 pound bag.

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In your sociopathic mind, yes.

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I’m falling in love with you. Can I take you to dinner by the beach and we can explore the sands together afterwards?

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I don't enjoy having dinner with other people. I'll pass.

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Let’s just explore the sands then after we eat our separate dinners.

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Deal.

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Life is better with than without them, whether they end up working out or not.

Hark! Harold the angel sings.

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I agree, but only for a brief amount of time.

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If that's all you want, just make it clear to the other person that you're looking for just a fling so they'll know what to expect

If we take the time to see with the heart and not with the mind, we shall see that we are surrounded completely by angels ~ Carlos Santana

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The only problem with flings is that eventually, one person or the other could get attached, and then it's a tedious path ahead.

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That’s spot on. They’d have to be someone who delivers happiness into my life, and vice-versa.

“There are no atheists in foxholes, eh?”-Keith Jennings from the Omen.

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Yeah bitch. When all else fails, just tell at the person. That'll work.

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You still are a bitch.

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Coming from you, that’s actually a compliment.

“There are no atheists in foxholes, eh?”-Keith Jennings from the Omen.
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