Are All Men Pedophiles? : I think this film may explain why our society is so fat phobic

I think this film may explain why our society is so fat phobic

I believe because it's now normal to sexualized the body type a child would have, that this is why fat people, particularly women are shunned. They are told having the bodies of women is unhealthy, and that they must work towards having the "healthy" body of an adolescent. There are thousands of women with starvation eating disorders. This is because society believes that a child's body is sexier than the body of a mature woman.

I think people need to see this, and realize how the normalization of the idea that a woman should fit into the same jean size as an 8 year old girl to be desirable are connected. Women are being told to starve themselves thin, because it's more appealing to men to view the child-woman presented by the industry. I hear thin women complaining about being teased for having the body of a fourteen year old, while they fail to realize as most of society has, that adult women by nature aren't meant to be stick thin.

Perhaps it is true in certain cultures, like Asia that women would be thin, but the problem is in the states we have confused the ideal of women having children's bodies, with health. An adult woman shouldn't be told in order to be healthy they need to lose weight, since weight overall doesn't impact health. Yet the diet industry and insurance companies which developed the B.M.I, has convinced them that the natural state for an adult woman should be the natural state of a teenage child. It is an affront to health, that women are told to maintain prepubescent appearing bodies.

There are a lot of people monetarily invested in the notion that being thin has a thing to do with overall health. We have teenagers with Anorexia, because they keep being told they shouldn't get fat, as in they should stay child like forever. I don't think it's when will pedophilia be normalized, it's pedophilia has been normalized.

I heard a Bengals cheerleader might get a reality show after sleeping with a teenage boy. It's more accepted by our culture for women to be pedophiles than men. That is what the whole cougar movement is about, making it acceptable for older women to gush about Justin Beiber and One Direction. Then there's the whole extended breastfeeding movement. It is well known that mothers can receive some form of sexual arousal from breastfeeding, and isn't it a coincidence the Time cover mom has two sons she's extended breastfeeding.

So while we're freaking out if a man looks at a girl the wrong way, women are openly acting as pedophiles, and few people have the strength to stand up to them, because society says you cannot tell a mother she's ever done wrong. For the record I am a female saying this. The extended breastfeeding nonsense has given me the heebie jeebies since I heard about it. Not long ago a female celebrity was married to a boy who was young enough to be her son. It's not the men we need to look out for, it's the women getting away with pedophilia.

I am disgusted by fellow females who think any of this is okay. It is n longer a matter of parenting style, when the child in question can stand and eat solid food. I also highly doubt the children are going into 3 years of age and wanting to breastfeed. I bet you'd find the mothers convinced them breastfeeding corresponded to love, exactly the same way male pedophiles groom their victims by claiming sexually pleasuring them is a form of love. I just hope things will change, I hope this documentary does get people talking about this. A mother is glorified on the cover of Times magazine for grooming her sons into prolonged breastfeeding. Where's the cops? Why isn't she on the registry?

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what a bunch of exagerrated bullsh't.

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If you have nothing productive to add, don't comment.

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Ok. You say society largely finds children sexual appealing, it's now the new normal and that women are conforming to that. That is complete and utter bullsh't and everything else you've said is based on that or just as warped.

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you're not calling me a sick bastard right just making sure? because you replied to me.

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No actually I was agreeing with & backing you up, sorry for the confusion




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Re: I think this film may explain why our society is so fat phobic

Take your own advice.

The worst thing that ever happened to the movies was when some pretentious twit decided they should be art.

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First off I am female. Second, what movie did you think I was talking about? Seems like just a couple of trolls who didn't know what the heck this board was about, they probably just search "fat" and think "Oh boy I get to hurt more fat people so I can feel better about myself!" Either that or you couldn't handle so many words without pictures, and threw a tantrum. I think you too need to go get off on your hate and prejudice elsewhere.

I am not at all supporting pedophiles you overreactive babies, I am suggesting as this film does,, that indeed we live in society that sexualized children. If this causes you to lash out and make threats and wild accusations towards people, you do not belong here. Is there anyone who wants to discuss this film? Or is it only child adults who want to have a scream and wail at the idea that their own might be in danger.

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Not sure what you mean by "children" but I don't consider a 16 yr old girl a child since that age is legal in many states and almost every country worldwide plus there's a reason girls that age are done with puberty and can basically lead a normal adult life, minus a few categories. Society seems to now want to punish men just for the sake of it with this pedophilia nonsense because teen girls in history have and always will be attracted to adult men. Nature has made it that way and nothing will ever change it, so society can continue putting laws against it but it wont matter because the attraction will remain and they'll find ways to get together anyway, especially with all the social media and access to each other through Facebook, Twitter, and cell phones, there's no stopping it, and I strongly feel the Powers That Be know and accept this, but have to make it look like they're concerned when they really aren't as much. The way I view it is as long as the girl/boy isn't a mere undeveloped child, they should be giving the right to select their own mates, regardless of age, since love and attraction have no boundary. Clearly the laws are greatly arbitrary since not everything applies.

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A 16 year old is most definitely a child. Ugh sicko

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No, a 16-year-old is not a child, you moron.

The worst thing that ever happened to the movies was when some pretentious twit decided they should be art.

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It's more about women desperately uncomfortable about their age because they are delaying marriage until they are practically in the nursing home. If they got married when they had young metabolisms they wouldn't be fighting it out in the dating market with women 10 years younger. Of course the delay isn't entirely up to them

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sorry, but fat people just aren't sexually appealing unless you have a fat fetish, which is almost as creepy as pedophilia anyway.

but it is worrisome that the ideal of beauty and sex appeal has shifted drastically in recent years from decidedly mature, full-bodied and curvy(marilyn monroe, elizabth taylor) to teenage(tara reid, selena gomex, cara devigne).

i think the normalization and social tolerance of porn has something to do with this. because porn tends to fetishize teenagers, and utilize pedophilia to induce a sense of taboo or depravity.

since porn is so prevalent now in the media, you can go on typical social/community/media websites like imgur, tumbler, reddit, 4chan, etc, where it is openly discussed. the tolerance of borderline pedophilia/hebephilia, and tacit desire for it, is not surprisingly also quite strong among those websites, which comprise mostly of mid 20s to late 30s men.

the most damning evidence, as porn tends to be a reflection of sexual zeitgeist, the most popular category of porn by a large margin is teen, and the male actors all tend to be 40 to 50. they've gotten so decrepit, they're finally turning them over and hiring new male actors now. i remember the media buzz surrounding james deen because of the fact that he wasn't a creepy 60 year old like the typical male porn actor.

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There are mature women that are skinny. And then there are children that are fat.


People are fat phobic because they look at a fat person and know that that is not healthy. Why is it okay to criticize a crackhead who smokes a lot of crack but not a fat ass who eats too much?

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.... Or maybe, just maybe, it's because it's incredibly unhealthy and extremely overweight people tend to teach their children the habits that has caused them to be overweight, which creates an epidemic of obesity with the diseases that accompany it.

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I agree.also saying a woman is dirty and bushy if she choose to be with pubic hair

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Fat phobic? You can just hear the folds of fat slapping together behind the screen as you read that.

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There's a big gray area between black and white that you fail to see. Just because too skinny is unhealthy doesn't mean that remaining fat is healthy.

You also fail to understand that the main difference between an average grown up woman and a prepubscent girl is not fat
per se
but fat distribution and skeletal structure. Gaining or losing weight won't make a lot of difference.

The documentary never said anything about most people preferring a "child's body", it clearly states that what most males are capable of being attracted to is girls in their, mid/late teens, age at which most females have already become sexually mature.

I'm afraid that your whole tantrum regarding weight has been thrown in vain.

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Fat people are unhealthy. All people are biologically wired to prefer healthy people. If someone prefers overweight to healthy bodies, it's some sort of fetish, not the norm.

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There is tons ... maybe thousands of years of evolution to parse and analyze here on this
subject. I think if you look at the way woman are treated in the majority of the world today,
and then you go back in history it is clear that men have managed women to their benefit,
calling it society, and normalizing it.

Perhaps it is normal, we are not at the point scientifically where we can really say, and even
if we had the data ... could be objectively look at it and act on it? I doubt that.

I hear some of the comments you are making and they throw me for a loop. I am sure you
are sincere, but it's hard to find a solid foundation to discuss this stuff on.

I think the only solution is to recognize that much of our society is based on a kind of addiction
to power and control, as well as an intellectual fascination with training other people, like we
have trained nature, animals and plants. Is it right because it is natural and we happened to
evolve this way, or is it wrong because it does not allow people conscious undersatnding and
choices, and how do we answer those questions, and more to the point, even if something is
right, we know from, for example, that slavery is wrong and we as a world maintained it for
centuries even some places today.

But why wouldn't sexual pleasuring be a form of love, assuming it was done voluntarily and
not under duress or by intimidation. Our business affairs are not restricted thuswise? I'm
thinking they should be.

This is the basic logjam of individual freedom, the fact that powerful people, men mostly,
want to construct society so that they can make use of people in ways they want to and
to not feel guilty and be able to call it normal ... and put it under the rug.

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It has nothing to do with finding a child's body "sexier" than an adult woman's. It's simply that most men don't find grossly overweight women attractive - nor, for that matter, do most women get off on fat guys.

The worst thing that ever happened to the movies was when some pretentious twit decided they should be art.

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they keep reinstating this ideal that is that a girl is most sexually desirable throughout ages even in the stone age at the age of 16. so really the magic number i think is 16 for girls to be able to have responsible sex an the age that a girl should have sex for the first time.

so the whole us needs to change all their 18s to 16 years old as the age of consent bc you cant argue with biology and the maturing process of girls being completely physically, mentally and sexually mature is at the age of 16.

heck most states in the us have the age of consent at 16 anyway so i really am irritated and dont understand why some states in the us the age of consent is 18??? so dumb makes no sense.

i fine it very weird hard to understand how in the modeling world it is legal to make images and videos of girls who are 16 but if a girl is 16 and makes her nudity pics on her phone it is illegal?

they said it's bc in the modeling world its considered art that is a copout bc not all modeling is art.

but cougars are usually with guys at least 18 though so not pedophile age.

i agree though that the us is way too sexualizing on girls and way too obsessed preoccupied with sex in general.

we need to start a movement of healthy bodied girls in magazines not stick thin but normal, average bodies in magazines to make it so where girls don't have to starve themselves to live up to a standard that is not healthy. so not fat or chubby girls in mags but average bodied girls in mags.

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