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I have been dating a woman for eight months and we still haven't had sex.

We are both in our thirties. I thought for sure we were going to do it on Christmas Eve but no such luck. Should I give up on this woman?

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Re: I have been dating a woman for eight months and we still haven't had sex.

What's the problem?

What does she do if you try to give her a bit of over-the-undies vagina rubbing or whatever while making out?

Have you tried pouring orange juice into her hair?

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I'm a year wiser now and have no fucking idea what that orange juice comment was about.

Epic.

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Re: I have been dating a woman for eight months and we still haven't had sex.

Have you talked to her directly about the topic? I mean it is just sex. It’s not like it’s like murder. Just talk to her. Ask her what her thoughts are about having sex at this point in the relationship. For all you know… she is a virgin and is waiting for marriage. And you will forever be waiting. You need to know these things.

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I believe there are some 30 year old virgins. It happens. I think it’s rare in this day and age. But, it happens. Don’t get me wrong, the reason why many Christians and other religions that prohibit premarital sex marry young is because they want to have sex early. But, I also think many can wait well beyond their years.

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She is not a virgin but she has only been with one guy. She was suppose to marry this guy but he backed out at the last moment. I am going to see her again on Friday evening and I will have to have a long long talk with her. I am literally going to blow a gasket if this relationship continues as is. We are both too old to be making out in the car like teenagers.

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Well, you shouldn’t get mad at her simply because she isn’t putting out. Don’t get me wrong, sex or lack of in a relationship is important. I’m not saying it’s not. But, you can’t get mad at her because she is not meeting your preferences or expectations. That is not going to change anything, first of all. Second of all, just because you have your preferences and expectations doesn’t means they are right. But, it doesn’t mean they’re wrong either. They’re just preferences and expectations. We all have them. But, they’re not neither right or wrong. They’re just what they are, preferences and expectations.

You just have to talk to her and see if your preferences and expectations are the same as hers. If they aren’t, then you do probably need to break up.

She isn’t a virgin, but having one sexual partner and she is in her 30s, that means she takes sex quite seriously. You have to consider that. Or not. It’s your choice. But, you can’t get angry at her.

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This was helpful. Thank you.

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You welcome. Good luck!

Re: I have been dating a woman for eight months and we still haven't had sex.

Good advice.



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That is not helpful.

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We are not helpful because we are all virgins. We are all God fearing Christians.

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You know what thread we should have? How many sexual partner have we had? I think we had such a thread, but we should have another one.

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It’s always Nimda. Or PE.

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Give it until New Years Eve. Make it your resolution!

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Make a fucking move or move on

Cheerio.

Re: I have been dating a woman for eight months and we still haven't had sex.

I don't think you should give up on her, but if I were a guy and was going through that exact problem, I would find a way to have a long talk with her about sex. I'd want to know either directly or indirectly from her where her mind is on the matter.
But that's after I've tried to making a move like foreplay and then leading to actual sex. If she stopped me and I saw a pattern of her always stopping right before the actual sex act, I'd gentle ask her in whatever way. I wouldn't be abusive. I'd just get her to talk about why she won't go all the way with me.

Look, people cannot read minds. Even those whose personality type has a high sensing and perception trait, STILL cannot read another person's mind. Even intuition isn't mind reading. You have to have a discussions with the other person in order to get closer to the truth or the heart of the matter.

So just talk to her about sex.

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Maybe she doesn't want you to see her penis.

This thread is a year old and OP probably still hasn't had sex with his girlfriend yet.

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