Ellen DeGeneres : Homosexuality is not a choice,but acting masc/effeminate?

I find that element more complex, and what people react to regarding homosexuality

I just heard she was gay. Total bummer, she was always pretty hot.

I'm not gay, but I thought I'd be polysexual and asexual.


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Agreed. I have no problem with people being Gay. Hell I have gay friends. But I have a problem with them trying to act Female and the same goes for the girls who try to act boy. That's the most annoying part. It maybe not be a choice but acting like that is and your just acting dumb for doing that. Act your gender. If you like guys then fine but don't dress up like a girl and talk female. That's so annoying. Same with girls. Sorry rant is over.

Great Scott -Doc Brown

I am more heterosexual.

What about pedophilia? Who's a pedophile?

I do like talking, not shy around other girls..

a child at Christmas

They should act different then who they are because you find them annoying? Wow somebody thinks highly of themselves.

People may only be able to act with what package they come with. You are not entitled to have others behave and act as you think they should. That is only being very arrogant and self-important. You don't even know what others might think of you and the way you act. Perhaps they think that you have a problem. If you have a problem with how others act regarding their gender, then you DO have an issue and that is yours to deal with. Don't deceive yourself or go into denial.

Exorcist: Christ's power compels you. Cast out, unclean spirit.
Destinata:

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But I have a problem with them trying to act Female and the same goes for the girls who try to act boy.

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Is that what they're trying to act like? Like men? Lesbians want to act and dress like men? But why? When they prefer women? It doesn't make sense.

I only thought of this aspect of homosexuality when I read a first person narrative (that I had to read for a creative writing course I was taking) that went something like this:

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Outside a motel, he came over and chatted with me and then asked if I wanted to go and play a game of cards with him in his room. I made up some excuse that I had to wake up early in the morning for work. But he couldn't be any dumber. I can't understand what part of me shouted that I was straight.

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Somewhere else in the text she revealed she had short hair, wore long pants, low heeled boots and a t-shirt. Of course, without pictures, the reader is left to their own imaginings.

So I imagined a woman wearing the most comfortable clothes (pants and t-shirt) with the most comfortable footwear (low heeled boots) with the most easy to care for hair style (short).

My question is: Who gave them the right to steal the comfortable look from the female community? And if they're not trying to steal the comfortable look from the rest of the female community, are they trying to dress like men as you pointed out? If so, why?

Complex or not, it really doesn't matter whether one acts "masc/effeminate." Those are total social constructs. Even straight people can opt for either of those behavioral styles.

Natural is different than "normal". Straight people do not opt since they have no interest in doing so.
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But what is "normal" IY? Your notion of normal, or someone else? The same goes for being natural. A person could dress as ostentatious as they wish, but have the most natural personality in the world, or they could be as fake and phony and narcissist as they come. It would depend on the package.

I don't understand why a man would want to dress as female, as I like male fashion as a male and it can look more like a parody or caricature of a female with the wrong gender clothing. They would have gender confusion issues; but that runs much deeper. It looks so much better though, when a female dresses as a male. They can get away with it, due to their finer and softer features. That is just a given for females. Sometimes though, one just has to play the game if they want acceptance and to fit in as best as possible.

Exorcist: Christ's power compels you. Cast out, unclean spirit.
Destinata:

We are to share God's truth in love that He makes no one LGBT+ and pray for them. Satan is attacking God's plan but Jesus will free us if we let Him.

I belong to Jesus: my Lord, Savior, my eternity, my everything. I love you, Jesus!

Homosexuality is not normal or natural. That's what Satan wants you to believe. Our Lord makes no one LGBT+. We are either male or female from in our mother's womb and He created one man and one woman to be together. It's Satan who is attacking God's plan.

I belong to Jesus: my Lord, Savior, my eternity, my everything. I love you, Jesus!

You are not normal or natural PrincessPotty and that's what your mental illness wants you to believe.

Exorcist: Christ's power compels you. Cast out, unclean spirit.
Destinata:

Oh that Satan, always attacking God's plan. You sound pathetic. You think men are gay because of Satan. You think this. You are pathetic.

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you think Satan and God used the word "pathetic"?

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No, they don't exist.

I'm straight and probably fall under the effeminate category. In high school, many people assumed I was gay because of my mannerisms and proclivities. As a kid, I played with Barbies, listened to "girly" music, and enjoyed dressing up like a girl. I attribute this to having two older sisters. I still love to crossdress, but it's something that I keep to myself for the most part.

I don't really try to act feminine. I do have natural feminine tendencies that I simply set free. I suppose they are likely to be even more prevalent when I dress. I dress alone so there is no one to say whether or not I act more or less. I am just going to assume more as I am connecting in a deeper way to my feminine side.

My father was around, but he was aloof and not too fond of my "girly" behavior. Every birthday, I was given a baseball bat, football, or something of that nature. I actually looked forward to my sisters' birthdays more than my own. My father tried to toughen me up by forcing me to play sports, which made me crave the company of female friends even more. I've always hated sports and felt uncomfortable being around a bunch of macho guys.

I've spoken to many CD's who are married or in otherwise committed relationships with women. The wives aren't always supportive, and sometimes their husbands choose to keep it a secret. I found out the hard way that you need to be upfront and open about it from the start. When I told my girlfriend I was a CD a year into our relationship, she was horrified and promptly broke up with me. She always appreciated that I wasn't like other guys, but I think the idea of me dressing en femme was too much for her to handle. I certainly don't blame her. I shouldn't have put off telling her for as long as I did.

I'm sure many of my co-workers and acquaintances think I'm gay. I am not bothered if people want to think that. I know I'm not so what label they want to use from ignorance is down to them. Only a very small group of close friends and family members know I'm a CD. I have to be careful who I tell as some people think we're all perverts. I can be sexual when I dress, but mostly, I just do it because it gives me a sense of well-being. Coming home and slipping into my comfy nightie after a hard day is therapeutic.

You need to seek a psychiatrist. I'm being serious. No sane man would dress like a woman. Women can't wait to take off their bras and heels when they get home.

Your aunt sounds like a ninny.

You have to give these actors kudo's for being honest and true to themselves. Especially in an industry that pretends to embrace diversity, yet are really deceptive and want actors to be what sells so they can manipulate. How else can they thrive and fleece the ignorant masses.

Exorcist: Christ's power compels you. Cast out, unclean spirit.
Destinata:

I think the poster you're semi-talking down to shows some real depth without being pretentious about it.

You asked him if he's straight so I'm going to ask you if you're gay. Of course you won't answer this question which you've been asked at least a thousand times because you're living under the delusion that you shouldn't be expected to give anything of yourself.

You can try like you're ignoring me all you want, simpleminded. It should come pretty naturally to you at this stage in the game. After all, you've been ignoring yourself your entire life.

Its to bad for her/him that it has suche a ugley face and body to! BARF! Ellen came on my TV and then I BARFED ALL OVER IT. He/she need a to started behaveing like an REAL WOMAN or itll be HELL TO PAY in the end! Plus she/he is BARF.

Keep in it real since 1972! And proud of it!!!!