The Flash : Do you think Barry is assertive in Bed?

For some reason, it's really hard for me to imagine Barry having sex. LOL. But you can't judge a book by its cover.

The writers have alluded to the fact that he isn't a virgin, though, so I'm wondering do you think that he's assertive or just lays there?

I see you but I'm going to do this any way. I think Barry Allen could likely teach a master class in how to make a woman shatter. Barry is self aware and completely emotionally intuned with Iris. Their level of trust would allow them to communicate their needs BUT even if for some reason she could not express her needsBarry is a trained scientist. He knows anatomy thus every erogenous zonewhat's more he'd be aware that the mind controls the body. He would want to explore every inch of Iris and I imagine him to be extremely tactile and observant of her responses. I imagine she'd be on the brink before he entered her and given his physical abilitiesI'm guessing multiple orgasms. Iris is one lucky lady because I see Barry taking his pleasure in seeing her rapture. He's holding the reigns because I imagine she is too weak to worry about who is in control.

Then I imagine that would be just one of the benefits of dating a man who is emotionally available kind and always aware of his partner. Now of course I'm thinking of Iris who he is totally in tune with. Then there was Patty and GF didn't want to let go. A man who has a woman begging to stayis a man who is getting the job done.

Didn't think of ANY of that. Iris might just be in for treat.

Alluded to? There was a scene where he shared a bed with Patty the Felicity wannabe.

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UghPatty.

She had more spark with Joe.

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And she looked more his age.

Barry was shown in bed with Patti one time. They both look like they're wearing something on top, but doesn't mean the characters weren't bottomless under the sheets ;-)






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Actually, he was wearing black pants and put on a shirt. She was wearing a plaid shirt and underwear. I wish I could remove the image from my mind.

I don't remember that all. Not that I expect to see nudity on the CW. I think we are meant to infer Patty and Barry were in a sexual relationship.

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It was in the deleted scene. The fact that they shared a bed makes me believe that as well. He never shared a bed with Linda though. And they're about to show him in the bed with Iris.

I totally agree. Regardless of the stage of undress, adults in bed on a network tv show implies sex. There's a reason Barry and Linda were on a couch with so much clothes on for their single intimate scene.

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Exactly. All they did was make out. Like she said.

Don't forget Linda she had bed scenes too. For someone who is pining away for lost love Barry had a healthy sex life. Those are the two we know about. He was not a virgin with Linda so they were likely more. I wish folks would stop seeing Barry as some freak. He is health normal 26 year old male at the peak of his sexuality

Barry did not have bed scenes with Linda.

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He did but he didn't get to finish because he had to leave. He and Linda had sex

How did they have sex if he didn't finish?


Clothes on. No sex.

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I don't think they did. During the Dr.Light episode where he revealed that he was the Flash, Linda said, "I've made out with the Flash!" I think making out is as far as it went. Thirsty Patty got the d though they thankfully deleted the scene.

he lost his virginity to patty, unfortunately

No, he did not.

Clearly some of you don't pay attention. Barry was with Linda first and he was not a virgin then. He had another girlfriend name Becky Cooper. I don't know some of you are under the impression that Barry was some shy awkward unassertive person. Iris was the only who he had feelings for that he kept to himself. And it was not because he was afraid to ask her out it went deeper than that. Barry has never any trouble asking out other women.

Barry is charming smart,funmy, caring querky and a little bit goofy that's like every womans dream gug. You will never be bored with someone like that whether in bed or out

Barry didn't sleep with Linda.

Barry didn't sleep with Linda on screen BUT Linda was uber aggressive sexually she attempted to initiate sex on their 2nd date. Barry left but he did continue the relationship. Their bowling date was a few eps after and it was clear their relationship had progressed. If she wanted sex on the 2nd date why would they not have had sex in their continued relationship.

Barry and Linda had sex and Barry wasn't a virgin. He also dated in high school and college. Barry didn't tell Iris he was in love with her because he was afraid of losing her not because he was timid or afraid of women. I sorta get the question because both of his on screen romances were initiated by the females but again story arc is important. Barry wasn't looking for love as he knew whom he was in love with he was only open when approached because Iris was unavailable and he was trying to move forward and I dare say trying to make Iris jealous. It worked. Notice Iris' expression when Barry told her he no longer had feelings for herthen notice how quick he was to admit he'd never stopped thinking of her when she admitted she couldn't stop thinking about him because she didn't want to.

Also note Felicity and how the writers showed affinity and compatability but didn't have them go down the romantic road. It was because both were emotionally attached to others and smart enough to realize it wouldn't work. Then there was Iris' actions with Felicity vs her behavior with Linda. Again, written as it was with purpose. Iris showed no jealousy of Felicity because her emotions for Barry were repressed. She had no clue he was interested in her and had fallen for Eddie when Barry was removed as a possibility. Once Barry admitted his feeling despite caring for Eddie her emotions for Barry rose to the surface aided by the fear of actually losing him to Linda. Complain about the writing all you want but these are complex characters dealing realistically with adult relationships and the fears passion motivations that drives them.

Barry didn't sleep with Linda on screen or off.

You can say that and you may even believe it but there would be no point in having them almost have sex on the 2nd date only to never have sex in an ongoing relationship. They had sex. Just as he and Iris have had sex despite it not being shown. They clearly were intimate before moving in together and yet we never saw it. It was assumed all realized to adults have adult relationships.

Why the fvck would she say that if they had sex? Wouldn't she say, "I've slept with the Flash.", or, "I've hooked up with the Flash." Making out is not sex.

Most people use euphemisms for sex as opposed to being explicit. There really is no need to be crass when we saw what took place on screen. They did make outon the 2nd date. They continued to date and Linda was very clear in going for what she wanted. Why would they not have had sex as they continued to date? Makes zero sense in the plot line. They were two adults in an adult bf/gf relationshipthey had sex.

Just because you want to be right, doesn't mean you are. Lmao. She didn't have to be crass in saying they hooked up.

Girl, bye.

seems the three of us have three different opinions: 1) Barry and Linda had sex, 2) Barry and Linda did not have sex but Barry was not a virgin, and 3) B/L did not have sex and Barry was a virgin.

i think the first is definitely not true- Barry and Linda never slept together.

the status of Barry's virginity before Patty is unknown, but i believe there is plenty of implications and allusions in the writing to his lack of experience, lack of girlfriends, innocence, and devotion to coddling his feelings for Iris over anything else to believe that he was. it's also not impossible for someone to be a virgin in their twenties.

Barry was NOT a virgin.

Barry did NOT sleep with Linda.

Barry DID sleep with Patty.

When he was putting his shirt on during the deleted scene, and she was laughing, he said, "Guys don't usually like it when girls laugh at them after what we did." I'm taking that to mean he's been in the situation with someone after sex.

I think you may want to watch again. Barry wasn't a virgin. He had adult relationships prior to Linda as college gf's were mentioned and he had a conversation with Cisco and Caitlin about having sex after having become a speedster and nothing in that conversation conveyed he was a virgin. In the very sweet deleted scene of he and Patty talking after what seemed their 1st time having sex Barry seemed confident and playful when telling her guys didn't really like being laughed at afterwards. Were he a virgin he would likely not have been so light hearted about bringing that up when it was clear she wasn't teasing him about sex. Barry and Linda DEFINITELY had sexjust as he and Iris have had sex. Had he and Linda split up after the sofa scene I'd agree with you but they didn't. They became continued dating in an adult relationship and I can see no reason they would not have had sex. Just as he and Iris stopped making out when Joe walked in but the relationship continued and clearly by end of 3B they have had sex and we haven't seen it and Iris isn't even close to being as proactive as Linda was. Just saying. Don't know why some want him to be timid and inexperienced but from the writing he is not

Barry's situation with Iris is very different. That's based in his fears specific to the intensity of his emotions for her. Love and sex are not the same thing.

HE DEFINITELY DID NOT HAVE SEX WITH LINDA.

I know you're salty about me ragging on your fave Patty, but this is ridiculous.

LOLHardly. You get rather intense about these fictional characters. Patty had a purpose and she served it. There was nothing wrong with her character as portrayed. She acted and reacted as most women would under the circumstances. That doesn't make her my favorite anymore than Linda is my favorite as she too served a purpose in the plot. YOU have the issue with Patty. I get why Barry needed that relationship sure and I felt bad for Patty as Barry was never going to be able to love her as she loved him.

I agree. It is ridiculous to assume Barry and Linda made out on the 2nd date and then continued dating and became BF/GF but didn't have sex. Barry and Linda had sex.

Still waiting on proof.

Barry DID NOT have sex with Linda.

Prove that he did.

Patty was useless. It's okay that she was. Go get me that proof.

Barry and Linda DID NOT have sex.

You can try and pretzel your way out of this, but someone that's RIGHT should have proof.

Still waiting on proof.

Barry DID NOT have sex with Linda.

Prove that he did.

Patty was useless. It's okay that she was. Go get me that proof.

Barry and Linda DID NOT have sex.

You can try and pretzel your way out of this, but someone that's RIGHT should have proof.

Get me a YouTube clip, transcript from the show, something.

And you called the deleted scene with Patty sweet, but crass if Linda mentioned them having sex. How is that possible?

I'll wait.

Their conversation in the moment was very sweet and again very typical of a couple interacting after shared intimacy.

Linda was boasting of the act in relation to what he wasBUT let it be known I didn't say what she did was crass. I said she used a euphamism to refer to the act as crassness or directness would not have been needed. We did see her initiate sex on the 2nd date. We did hear her utter the words "I work hard and play hard and am particular in who I spend my spare time with." All of which indicates Linda was a direct woman who knew what she wanted and didn't waste time in playing games. Linda wanted Barry and the logical conclusion to what started on their 2nd date would have concluded on their 3rd. The relationship progressed between their on screen 2nd date and the bowling date which we saw next as at that point they were a couple.

So why would she say made out at all? If she was boosting, she would have said hooked up. Saying that isn't crass. I don't see you complaining about Barry kissing and telling Cisco and Caitlin. But Linda talking to only Barry is crass?

I have whiplash from reading your posts. Pick something and stick with it.

If you have whiplash it's because you are lashing around trying to find an argument. Context matters. I didn't say Linda was crass at all. I said euphamisms are used so as to avoid being crass. Did he kiss and tell? He only said he was going on a 2nd date. Cisco and Caitlyn took the conversation from there. They had the datewere interrupted skipped an ep and we picked up with them as a couple. No reason to assume they didn't smash when the ship progressed off screen.

I have whiplash because you keep contradicting yourself. But all of that is moot. I asked you for proof. Why is it so hard for you to get it?

Assume. You used that word. Assume does not equal right. I want indisputable proof that they did.

Until you get that indisputable proof, you're just projecting. You wouldn't have to ASSUME if you were so right. Come on. Prove me wrong!

I'll add my opinion.

I don't think Barry had sex with Becky Cooper. She sounds more like a sophomore prom date that he wasn't very serious about. He and Linda did not have sex. He and Felicity with a badge had sex. He probably had sex before Patty, but she was his first serious girlfriend, but he loved Iris first and more.

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No reason to believe he didn't have hook ups in college. He met Linda and made out with her. I'm sure he met girls and made out and went farther because they didn't get interrupted. People don't say they made out with someone if they did more. Linda was the type to freely speak her mind. Why would she sugarcoat it if Barry was the only other person in the room? Laaana thinks saying sex is crass, but Eddie said, "We haven't had SEX in two weeks." And he said it to Joe. But Linda, forward Linda wouldn't say that to Barry. Yeah, right.

And Eddie said it to Iris' father. People tend to drop polite euphemisms under times of stress, shock, or frustration.

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And Linda was shocked. Which is clear in the video. But she didn't want to be crass.

I'm not the one who starts dropping profanity when someone disagrees with me. It's not a matter of wanting to be rightI am right. Linda and Barry were bf/gf AFTER making out on the 2nd date. She was straight forward and unafraid of asking to have her needs met. They had sex. Telling others you actually had sex with someone is crass no matter the ephemism used. It's a betrayal of intimacy and trust.

It was just them! Who else was there to tell? Did you watch the scene or are you just sitting on the fact that you're right?

No, you're NOT right. You just want to be.

LOLYes I am right. There is not one logical reason to assume they did not continue the relationship they started. We know they did. Unless you are also going to state Barry and Iris have not had sex. They were making outgot interrupted and continued to date. We haven't seen them have sex but we know they are adults and clearly they have had sexas did he and Linda.

No, you're not right. You just really, REALLY want to be.

He didn't have sex with Linda. Prove that he did since you're so right.

Not assume. Prove that you're right.

I'll wait.

The proof is in the continuity of writing. Barry and Linda were adults in an adult relationship. On their 2nd date they would have had sex had they not been interrupted. Had they broken up then sure you would be right, the relationship would have ended and they would have been that.

It didn't end. They continued to date. She was his gfthey had sex. If you choose to believe they didn't go with it. It's illogical and inconsistent with the story line but you are free to believe anything you want to believe.

This is your opinion. I asked for PROOF.

Until I get that,

BARRY AND LINDA DID NOT, DID NOT, DID NOT, HAVE SEX.