JonBenét Ramsey : Burke is single, right?

Has he ever had a GF, to anyone's knowledge? I seriously doubt he has, as I believe he's a sociopath but if he ever did I wonder if he might spill the beansor get really drunk one night and make a friend "promise" not to tell?

Anyway, if anyone knows any info let me knowI'm curious know, as after these specials have showed to me how twisted he is. Smearing feces on her presents and walls.

Did he graduate from college ?

I'm pretty sure he had a girlfriend at college years ago but I can't remember where I read that

Burke currently has a girlfriend and yes, he did graduate from college.

He's sociopathic because he doesn't have a girlfriend? What?

Have you guys seen a photo of her the article I read said she looked like his sister

I saw ithe was creepy as a kid and creepy as an adult. His appearance on Dr. Phil with that constant smirk, manno wonder he works from home.

Don't forget him smearing feces over her walls and Christmas presents the Christmas she died

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Don't forget him smearing feces over her walls and Christmas presents the Christmas she died

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Seriously? That's *beep* up.

Yepa fact. And behavior he had exhibited before..

I he1c84ard about a year after the fact that a guy I was friends with as a kid had accidentally killed someone in a fight and buried the body at the family's cottage with the help of his father.
The victim was officially missing for about five years until the police received an anonymous tip about where to search for the body.
Imagine keeping that inside for that long? He eventually must have told someone about it (or more than one person) and they themselves couldn't keep it a secret, either. Hell, maybe it was his dad who called the police in the end. I don't know.
(On the night he killed the guy, he called his dad in shock and in a panic and told him what he'd done. His dad, an otherwise really great guy had to make a choice: call the police or try and save his son.)

This all went down when he was a grown man after a perfectly normal childhood.,He didn't confess or turn himself in, but he did tell someone. You can't keep that stuff inside forever.

As for Burke, that kid had one messed up childhood. Is it easier or harder to suppress things like that the younger you are? I find it hard to imagine he hasn't told someone he trusts in all this time.

The problem is Burke is a sociopath. Meaning he has no feelings (basically). I mean, have you ever seen him cry or upset about this whole affair?? Even when asked point blank by a child psychologist how he feels (he said he's ready to move on BTW.2 weeks after the murder)?? You or me might get upset by our pet dying (I do). Whereas it's like nothing to him. Like an ant dying to us.

Can you prove hes a sociopath because youd actually have to know him to make a assertion like that. Right now, all you are doing is making assertion on what you perceive not what you know. At the same time why do you need to know why he has a girlfriend or not. Even if this guy is weird, he hasnt exactly led a normal childhood and his family has been shrouded with speculation and suspicion through propaganda, smutty magazine and news outlets at an early age so who knows what issues he may have with that and relating to other people.

He was one WEIRD kid before. Heck, plenty of professionals watched his behavior and what he's said and called him a sociopath. Hence, his repeated attacks on his sister (one with a golf club). His smearing of feces on her walls and Christmas presents (which he had exhibited before). There's a term for playing with feces and it is agreed that it is behavior indicative of a sociopath in the making. Other posters here also noted this. Scataphilia. I guarantee you I never once even thought of putting my feces on my brother's presents or room or anything. Someone that does this has problems and needs to be treated ASAP. His constant smiling as a child and adultlikewise. Also, his talking about himself when asked about his sister and the things he's said all raise huge flags with any psychologist. Basically, he's detached emotionally from anything that happened. When asked a month after her death he said "I'm just trying to go on with MY life." And on Dr. Phil "the biggest crime that happened that night was the police focusing the blame on my family." Can you see why people were outraged? You don't mention your dead sister? Then or now??

I believe their "close friends" the White familythe ones that had the Ramseys ate Christmas dinner at the night before while not going on camera, did talk to the CBS special people. I'm pretty sure Mr. White told them a whole lot about odd Burke and how he knows the Ramseys are responsible (heck, I believe he might have been told by John perhaps). No wonder John through him and his wife under the bus and they're no longer friends as is NOBODY from Colorado. Nobody. People know more than we do that were close to them. Many are prob. scared of getting sued as this is a Ramsey tactic.

Can you prove he's not a sociopath?

And I don't see any smutty maga111czines blaming himif anything they seem to want to keep the bizarre intruder theory alive. It sells. I don't see how someone can really believe that ransom note was from a "small, foreign faction.that respects (John's) businessand to be rested for a long day." Meanwhile they're asking for ransom when the supposedly kidnapped is laying dead in the house she was supposedly kidnapped from. Makes no sense. You can't have a kidnapping with ransom or without ransom with no body! That's why it's a kidnapping. That's why in the history of the FBI there's not one case of a "kidnapping" with the kidnapped dead in their own home. It's an oxymoron.

Take away that silly ransom note and what do you really have?? And if there was some "killer" out there the police and the Ramseys never seemed to worry. Reminds me of OJ and his search for "the real killers" at every club on South Beach. By now he or she would have showed up or been caught/confessed.

I would def. think it's easier to suppress as a child. A lot easier. For one, the brain isn't fully developed, the memory itself fades and as time passes becomes something that happened "a long time ago." The fact that someone was a child at the time of such an event the person know sees it as an accident, no matter how culpable he or she may have been. In other words, the grown-up self would prob. convince him or herself that children can't commit or be responsible for the death of anotherno matter what the facts it was an accident, and therefore should not feel the guilt as an adult for what they've been told many times was an accident.

Think about something from your childhoodI know now I don't feel the same way about stuff that happened in my younger years whereas when and after it happened I might have felt tremendous guilt or shame. Of course, we aren't talking about the death of someone else but if you have adults repeatedly telling you "it's not your fault" and "it was an accident" when they were a child, and that resulted in someone eroding all feelings of guilt.I'm sure by the time they're grown up it's merely become a childhood incident they've mostly blocked from memory and any feelings.

That being said, it must depend on the individual. It's a very interesting topic, an5b4d I'd like to ask some professionals I know about it. Next time I see one I will ask. I would think that some might be overwhelmed with guilt as an adultdepends on the person.

I know many people that saw Burke on either Dr. Phil or saw the childhood interviews in the months after the murder (the ones with the child psychologist). Everyone of them I know said he was "very cold" or "seemed in his own world" or "he has no feelings" to one person saying he "downright freaked" them out with his lack of feelings/remorse/sadness/etc Does it mean he did it? Well obviously no as everyone grieves different, but IMHO (and others) I don't think he's ever felt anything about it at all. By the posts on the Dr. Phil board it seems many thought he seemed "happy" when talking about his dead sister, esp. during certain portions. One person posted "it looked like he was enjoying reliving the moment."

He had one messed up childhood, we agree. They went from doting over him 24/7 to doting over J.B. and he did not like that at all. I've seen other only kids basically abuse the new child and say "why did you have to have him!" I think his parents knew he was troubled but basically we're too busy with their own lives to notice how severe it was. There were warning signsthe hitting if JB with a golf club, the repeated episodes of him playing with feces. They prob. thought it was a phase or they could throw money at the problem if it16d0 got worse. Dad was always working, Mom was concentrating on JB, and she got most the attention from them and friends or anyone else.

It's an interesting topic. I'll be sure to ask how a child might handle being responsible for such an act or the situation as a whole, if they were responsible or not.